Showing posts with label estate planning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label estate planning. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Where All the Ladders Start

In the twilight of his life, William Butler Yeats lost his mojo. His last poem, The Circus Animals' Desertion was published in 1939.  In Circus Animals, Yeats chronicles his fruitless search for his missing inspiration:

I sought a theme, and sought for it in vain.
I sought it daily for six weeks or so.

After failing at finding a theme, he turns his search to the source of his inspiration. Yeats looks back at his greatest works, and realizes that along the way he had begun to cherish the characters created therein more than the ideas they represented:

Players and painted stage took all my love
And not those things that they were emblems of.

Yeats concludes that inspiration is not found in things, but within oneself:

....Now that my ladder's gone
I must lie down where all the ladders start, 
in the foul rag and bone shop of the heart. 

It is oddly encouraging that even the man considered by many to be the greatest poet of the 20th century found himself at the well of inspiration without a drop of water to drink.  I have loved my job since I was 24.  Still, work is work and if you are lucky like me, most of the time it is fun. But at the end of the day, it's still work.  As I learned this summer, work that no longer inspires you is just miserable. 

I lost my ladder.  

For the last six weeks, I have been looking for my ladderthinking a lot about my practice and what I love about it. I love the daily interactions with my staff and my partner, and most of all with my clients.  The biggest draw for me of doing estate planning and probate is the chance to hear someone's story.  Everyone's got one if you take the time to listen.  I have the privilege of hearing those stories and the satisfaction of helping people. I also enjoy the demands of civil litigation and a good fight--that's where the intellectual challenges happen.  Our local Bar has some tremendous talent.

My office reopens Monday, November 26, 2018, after a long and involuntary break thanks to Hurricane Michael. I'm excited to get back to practicing law. I'm excited to have a computer network  and a printer. It's the little things, am I right?  I miss my clients and colleagues.  I miss my employees and the people who are a part of our daily routine. I wanted to hug our UPS delivery guy yesterday when he carried in some area rugs we ordered to cover the ugly floor situation we have going on right now. 

I even miss the daily grind of running a small law firm and all the challenges it entails. 

My personal office upstairs was wrecked by the hurricane, so I had to move to a different one. I relocated downstairs, back full circle to the office I had when I was just a baby lawyer—armed with nothing but dreams and ambition and a ton of raw knowledge.  When I passed the Bar my mentor Chuck told me "you know more about the law right now than you ever will again, but you know nothing about practicing law.  So pay attention." 

I'm back again, but this time with 24 years of practice.

I found my ladder.


XOXO

Julie



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Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Same Sex Marriage is Legal in all 50 States--Now What? Thoughts on the Practical Effect on the Practice of Law in Florida.

Same sex marriage (SSM) is legal in all 50 states as of June 26, 2015.  Now what?  [If you want to read the landmark decision of the US Supreme Court making SSM legal everywhere in the U.S., here's a link:  Obergefell v. Hodges.]

For Florida practitioners, there are four obvious areas in which the legalization of SSM will have an immediate and practical effect:  family law, estate planning, real property, and personal injury.

1.  Family Law:  where there are marriages, there will also be divorces. Practitioners have been fashioning SSM "divorces" for years through contracts but the remedy was woefully insufficient. The big change here from the parties' perspective is the entitlement to the benefit of the divorce code. The big change coming in family law practice is a revision of pleadings and forms such as prenuptial agreements to refer properly to the spouses in personal pronouns and appellations.  The general consensus developing is that the proper manner to refer to the parties to a SSM are Husband/Husband or Wife/Wife. [Side note; There's about a million other variations on this issue having to do with gender referencing but that is not what this blog post is about and many other more learned and nuanced sources exist on the internet--google it].  The use of the Husband/Husband or Wife/Wife appellations will cause some need for careful drafting though since most programs or forms rely on the Husband/Wife configuration to keep track of each party in a document.  So if your forms are built on that paradigm, you will have to be extra careful when using them to draft documents for a SSM-divorce or prenuptial agreement.

2.  Estate Planning:  Estate planning practitioners have also been writing same sex documents for years. The real change here is not necessarily the forms but the rights and privileges parties to SSM will now be entitled to claim.  For example, the surviving spouse of a SSM will now be entitled to claim pretermitted spouse status, elect to take the spousal share, inherit by intestacy,  be entitled to all of the rights of a surviving spouse with respect to homestead including an election to take the spouse's joint tenant's share in the homestead, be entitled to be Personal Representative in an intestate estate, and be entitled to claim personal property exemptions for personal property, vehicles and other tangibles. The HUGE impact the legalization of SSM will have on estate planning for same sex couples is really not quantifiable.  Check out my website for answers to Frequently Asked Questions about Probate and Estate Planning.

3.  Real Property:  Just as with family law and estate planning, documents will have to be revised; however, most real property practitioners have been writing deeds and other instruments for same sex couples for years.  Here again the HUGE change is the rights and privileges the SSM couple will now be entitled to claim.  First, having the right to own property as tenants by the entireties is a really big deal.  Why?  Because real property held as tenants by the entireties is very special, and immune from all efforts of collection unless the judgment holder has a judgment against both spouses.  This is really the only change for real property that matters (excluding homestead as addressed above).  The big change in practice will be remembering to acknowledge the SSM in our deeds.  Best practice has always been to reference the marital status of both grantor and grantee in every deed (so that a title examiner down the road can exclude homestead and/or tenants by the entireties issues from a transaction).  Now more than ever, this best practice will be paramount since before the homestead and tenants by the entireties was only an issue when the grantor or grantee was a man and a woman. Now any combination of genders could be a married couple so what before was a best practice is now an absolute necessity in my opinion.  I wrote about the history of homestead in Florida here.  Check out my website for answers to Frequently Asked Questions about real estate.

4.  Personal Injury:   Parties to a SSM will now enjoy the same spousal rights in personal injury and wrongful death cases as everyone else. Where before the uninjured partner in a same sex couple was not entitled to sue for loss of consortium, etc, a legally married same sex couple will enjoy these rights.

Many other practice areas will be affected by this epic shift in the landscape and my thoughts above are directed primarily to areas of my practice (1-3 above) in which I anticipate immediate changes.   Please note that I am not interested in a debate about SSM, or anyone's opinion on SSM so please do not bother commenting as I will be very liberal with the delete button. That said, I would love to read comments about the effect of this case on your practice.

Happy Wednesday!

Julie

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Monday, January 16, 2012

Hello World!

Hello world! At the advice of my web guru, I have started this blog in an act of shameless self promotion. With that disclaimer out of the way, I am looking forward to blogging about a variety of legal issues, and as the name of this blog implies, shoes.

Why shoes? Because I love them. Shoes are fantastic. Who doesn't love a pair of well made shoes? If your feet are not happy, is the rest of you ever truly content? I say no. Fair warning: my love of shoes is surpassed only by my love of a good handbag. Expect discussion of purses as well.

Along with purses and shoes, I'll probably occasionally chime in on topics on which I have some personal experience: owning your own business and motherhood.

Last but not least, I plan to blog about the law in three main areas:

1.Wills, trusts, and estate tax;
2.Probate and probate litigation; and
3.Trade secrets, noncompetition agreements, and business torts.

So, welcome to my blog! Follow it, love it, join it and comment. Above all, enjoy. You can also follow me on Twitter @LawOnHighHeels as well if you are into that kind of thing.

Julie